Thursday, May 21, 2009

Fuck Cosmo!

..or something drastic like that.

Hi NiceAnon!! :)
So....i was gonna blog about Part Deux, but i got sidetracked by stuff in April 2009's cosmo. (not mine....i stopped subscribing after i realized that it wasn't helping me find a man).
I'm sorry, I'm a girl and I grew up with 3 sisters and no brothers. My interaction with the male species consisted of my father telling us.. (as we gazed at other kids playing outside from our bedroom window) stay away from those "hopeless boys" lol. My daddy!
Ok that doesn't count as interaction, I guess my real interaction was in 2008. Lol, i'm kidding gosh! i'm not some hermit weirdo..(well...not anymore :D)My interaction with this strange male species has been more than some but less than most and mostly good. I know i've talked about BOYS before, that's not the purpose of this here post. Can my fellow blogworlders help me better understand some of these statements from men..about men.
Are any of these "reasons" valid?
CASE 1: 8 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Reason #1: For payback..girl was texting her ex (harmless he claims), dude got pissed and cheated. No comment but is this really a valid reason?
Reason #2: The physical attraction just isn't there: So WHY ARE YOU STILL DATING HER? Reason #3: She just isn't there: See scream @ #2
Reason #4: He thinks he's missing out: um...this is actually a scary one...anyone?
Reason #5: He's moved on emotionally
Reason #6: There's too much fighting
Reason #7: He needs a shot of self-esteem
Reason #8: To fulfill a fantasy
I know life is not perfect and it's not ok to generalize because not everyone is like that..but these reasons were listed by that means that at least one other guy out there agrees/ thinks that one of these reasons is ok/justifiable...

If i could i would scream from all the mountain tops...Why can we not all just be upfront and honest with our feelings and what we want/don't want at all times?

*i confess...this is an old post that i just never got around to finishing".....Hi blogworld..shey everybody is doing ok?


TayneMent said...

lol@ #4 and #8. I can see that. I guess bottom line is why cheat instead of just breaking up. It's been said that "breaking up is hard to do"

Nice Anon said...

Hello Kate. Where have you been?

I don't know about all that list BUT I know that one of the main reasons a man won't cheat is because he has the FEAR of God in him. All other things na jazz.

Kate said...

@Taynement..that's what wimps say. Breaking Knee Caps is hard to do too..but i will if i have to.
@ NiceAnon...i've been around o. me sef i dont know where i've been. LMAO @ jazz...but yes o..only God can save us.

Anonymous said... I remember why I cancelled my cosmo subscription...

MPB said...

Number 4 and 7 seem to be the most common reasons I hear.

Kate said...

yeah but if you feel like you are missing out or you need someone to stroke your ego and other things...why not just be honest and end it?

Original Mgbeke said...

Ok how did you sneak and update without me knowing? All the times I was checking, no updates and then I disappear and I see updates. mchewww...
That's what I get for no blogroll.

Errrm I hate Cosmo and I think most of their articles are just on some B.S but I'm with Taynement, i can see numero 4 and 8. #1 is just serious B.S.